1. They have bad judgment in picking partners, or display attractive qualities they don't really possess. In short - they're deliberately deceiving these women. Does that deceptive quality and lack of judgment apply across the board? I think it does because they have this - "I want what I want attitude" - without thought of what's best, or right. If they're in a leadership position just how important is that?
2. They treat their wives badly. In the cases I personally know they've not been considerate husbands to their wives. If they treat their wives with a lack of respect how would they treat you? It demonstrates a degree of irresponsible behavior. How important is that in a leader?
It comes down to this, and I think it's largely true. Show me how a man treats his wife and I will tell you who he is. Oh, one more thing by way of disclosure. In May I will have been married to the same woman for 42 years, and with some exceptions, she doesn't seem to mind too awful much.